In honor of Presidents’ Day, we’re looking back to the Founding Fathers and the early U.S. Presidents who shaped a nation under immense pressure. Long before modern leadership books and productivity systems, these leaders relied on disciplined thinking, intentional habits, and clear communication to guide their decisions and earn trust.
So what exactly are Presidential Habits? They are the mental frameworks, daily disciplines, and communication styles practiced by America’s earliest leaders to manage uncertainty and make consequential choices. For life insurance agents, these Presidential Habits show us how to govern your time, mindset, and client relationships with the same level of purpose and precision that built a nation.
By adopting these three specific habits, you can improve your sales performance and lead families through the process of securing life insurance with confidence.
1. The Lincoln Habit: Prepare with Radical Empathy
Abraham Lincoln was a master of persuasion because he mastered the art of seeing the world through other people’s eyes. He famously said: “When I get ready to talk to people, I spend two-thirds of the time thinking what they want to hear and one-third thinking about what I want to say.”
How it improves your sales: In the life insurance business, you are dealing with a deeply personal subject: a family’s future security.
- The Habit: Before every meeting, spend time visualizing the client’s situation. What keeps them up at night? If you prioritize their needs rather than your script, you build an immediate bond of trust. When a family feels understood, the “sale” becomes a natural partnership.
2. The Eisenhower Habit: Prioritize "Important" Conversations
General Dwight D. Eisenhower managed the D-Day invasion and the U.S. Presidency by using a simple matrix to distinguish between the Urgent and the Important. He knew that “what is important is seldom urgent, and what is urgent is seldom important.”
How it improves your sales: It is easy for an agent to get bogged down in “urgent” noise, like administrative tasks or emails. However, the most important part of your job is the time you spend face-to-face with families.
- The Habit: Use the Eisenhower mindset to protect your “Golden Hours.” Prioritize income-producing activities, like setting appointments and presenting life insurance solutions, over busy work. If a task doesn’t directly help a family get covered, it shouldn’t be your priority during the day.
3. The FDR Habit: Simplify with "Fireside" Clarity
Franklin D. Roosevelt used his “Fireside Chats” to turn complex national crises into calm, neighborly conversations. He spoke with simplicity, warmth, and authority. He didn’t use jargon; he spoke to people like a trusted friend sitting across the kitchen table.
How it improves your sales: Life insurance can be an intimidating topic. If you use heavy industry terminology, you create a barrier between you and the client.
- The Habit: Be the “Fireside Agent.” Speak in plain English. Instead of focusing on technical contract terms, talk about “financial peace of mind” and “protecting your family’s lifestyle.” When you simplify the process, you remove the fear and make it easy for families to say “Yes.”
Work with Presidential Discipline
You don’t need a campaign budget to win your territory. By preparing with Lincoln’s empathy, prioritizing your time like Eisenhower, and simplifying the conversation like FDR, you’ll find that sales don’t just “happen“; they are the natural result of your presidential leadership.


