I am attending the Utah Funeral Director’s Convention in Salt Lake City this week and it’s been a great convention so far. This morning I sat for two (2) hours and listened to Doug Gober, Executive Director at Matthews International give a fantastic presentation on the state and potential future of the funeral industry. If you’ve never heard Doug speak – close your eyes and think of a red-haired Dave Ramsey. Their mannerisms are quite similar – passionate about the topic, factual about the information, pointed in the delivery; and all with a gentle southern accent. This was the first time I’ve had a chance to actually sit down and listen, truly listen to one of his presentations – and it was so refreshing to hear someone else from our industry talk about the changes that some of us stick our heads in the sand about. It was nice to hear another industry insider talk about the “buying relationships” of our customer base – those deep-seated practices and patterns that we ask families to throw away the day they deal in our line of business. The dynamic of host family and established funeral practice and how they seem forever locked in a dance with poor rhythm.